Dreadlocks

by Kate on July 16th, 2009 | 10 Comments » | In Life, Parenting

My daughter has dreadlocks. No, seriously… the hair on the back of her head is one giant clump of knotted hair. It gets nastified every single day no matter how much I comb it. Between her car seat and sleeping on her back I just can’t get that hair to be nice and sweet.

The hair on the side and top of her head is normal. Cute, even, with nice gentle curls.
But, the back of her head… This is the dreads on a really good day. Trust me, it normally looks like ONE GIANT KNOT. Ew.(Was it really necessary to watermark that photo? Probably not so much. I mean, who would steal a photo of my baby’s hair in knots?)

Can you recommend any baby safe, tear free baby conditioner? Because, really, the baby soap / shampoo combo just isn’t cutting it. I’m officially on the case and will let you know what I find.

Oh, by the way, Baby Girl is 8 months old today! And she’s finally crawling – a definite upgrade from the one-armed-belly-crawl-scoot she was rocking.

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Kate started The Shopping Mama™ in January 2009 when she traded in online legal research and writing for locating the best products for children. She shops for a 4.5 year old boy and 2.5 year old girl and is pregnant with baby number 3 due to arrive in March. Kate and her family recently relocated to steamy Montgomery, Alabama and are happy to be living all together as a family of four after surviving a one year deployment. Read more about her pregnancy on the BabyCenter Momformation blog.

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Comments (10)

  1. Erin

    July 16, 2009

    LOL. My daughter had the same exact problem… curly hair. She's 3 now and she sleeps with her hair in a braid so I can brush it in the morning, otherwise I'm screwed. We use regular Pantene conditioner although you may just want to try No More Tears which is what we used before.

  2. Tara

    July 16, 2009

    Dreads or no, she's absolutely adorable!

    I responded to your Tweet about this, but here's the link to our baby hair conditioner. It's safe, gentle, effective and contains 92% organic ingredients! http://www.maternitique.com/shop/products/87/bjbj-hair-hydration.html

    Let us know if it helps; if it doesn't, you get your money back because we have a 100% guarantee on all our products.

    Good luck with your little crawler.

    Cheers,
    Tara

  3. The Cupcake Wardrobe Shop Blog

    July 17, 2009

    My daughter has LOADS of long curls (she's still 1 for just one more week), and we battled the same issue. Having curly hair myself, luckily I already had experience with curly bedhead. The key (for us anyway) has been 1) a lil bit of conditioner, 2) very good rinsing ( it really helps straighten out the tangles without needing to pull on them with a comb), and 3) to use a wide-tooth comb (or pic) INSIDE the shower/bath while the hair is still very wet. After combing out smooth, comb the hair in the direction you'd like it to dry. There's no need to comb again after the shower, just let it air dry! If her hair continues to stat curly as she gets older, just remember the less you handle it, the less it will frizz!

  4. tiny giraffe shop

    July 17, 2009

    i was laughing the whole time i read this. too funny! we like the leave-in conditioner spray from target. it's just the generic brand…right next to the baby version j&j makes.

  5. Bella

    July 17, 2009

    The problem may be caused by the fact you're using baby shampoo/conditioner at all. Your body knows how to regulate its own oils, especially for babies. Have you heard of the No Poo movement? Maybe you should check it out and see what it does for her before buying yet another product. Also, try a satin pillowcase for her bed / satin piece of fabric on the back of her car seat.

    http://www.naturemoms.com/no-shampoo-alternative.html

  6. Mission of mamahood

    July 18, 2009

    Agh – we are in the same boat with our munchking (who just turned 9 months today!). Glad to know we are not the only ones fighting the battle of the dreads!

  7. Shari@aPsychMommy

    July 18, 2009

    Happy 8 months! I hope you found a new shampoo that works–I know the dreads can be a pain, but her curly hair is absolutely adorable!!!

  8. Anonymous

    July 18, 2009

    My girls have very curly hair. The oldest (3 1/2) has beautiful, long ringlets. The littlest (12 mo) has short, rough curly hair. I started using J+J No More Tangles shampoo + conditioner for curly hair and it seems to work well. It's also inexpensive, which is a plus!

    Good luck!

    Jana

  9. Personalized Sketches and Sentiments

    July 20, 2009

    too funny that you call her little tangles – "dreadlocks" haha

    and she is looking so innocently sweet!
    like… *moi?" tangles? couldn't possibly have a hair on my head be unruly!*

  10. Anonymous

    July 20, 2009

    My daughter doesn't have curls like yours, but her hair is rope-like and extremely thick at 4 years old. The hair-brushing battles are legendary at my house!! I've found that California Baby products work the best for her hair. They sell it at Target and Babies R Us. It is non-toxic, made from mostly organic materials, and tear-free. My favorite product is the bubble bath though, cause has a wand in it for impromptu bubble blowing in the tub! Beware of Johnson & Johnson, I've read some horrible things about their stuff, like it has formeldehyde in it!

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